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Jewish Teens Attacked In France – How You Can Stay Safe

October 15, 2018Thedreidel

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French police arrested four men they said may have been assaulted four Jewish youths in an anti-Semitic assault in Nice, triggered by one of the victims wearing a Star of David pendant.

The incident in the southern French city occurred in the center at about 2 a.m. on Saturday morning, according to a report by the France3 television station. The four suspects and a fifth teenager, who was not immediately apprehended, assaulted the alleged victims, beating them and causing minor injuries. At least one of the perpetrators also stole a golden chain from one of the victim, the municipality said.

Mayor Christian Estrosi, who has vowed a zero tolerance policy on racist violence and radical Islam activities in his city, said he found it the incident “unacceptable” in a statement from his office titled “anti-Semitic assault in the center of Nice.” Police officers under command canvased the city in search of the perpetrators, resulting in the suspects’ arrest within a few hours of the incident.

Jews have and probably always will be targets. Jewish teenagers are especially vulnerable to attacks from mobs, larger and more oppressive people, and anyone whose hate has overcome their humanity.

So, what to do about it?

We’ve reprinted an article from Sarah Maizes blog on 11 Ways to Keep Your Teens Safe. We thought it would be valuable for teens to read it:

A group of my daughter’s friends were recently mugged.

Right in the middle of Beverly Hills.

At gunpoint.

When Izzy told me what happened my heart froze. A group of teenagers were walking from a party at one friend’s house to another friend’s house (Izzy didn’t leave with the group). Thankfully (and that’s not a big enough word for my gratitude), the perpetrators only took the kids’ phones and nobody was hurt. But still, a friend of my daughter’s had a gun in his chest.

I was ready to pack up, leave LA, and move to a quiet neighborhood in Montana.

But would that even make a difference?

Crime is everywhere. I have no idea if it was always everywhere, but I know for sure it is now. At movie theaters in Denver and elementary schools in Sandy Hook, Connecticut. Violence has become a part of our daily existence – no matter where you live.

A couple of weeks after the tragedy in Denver I remember a couple of friends and I took our kids to a movie. We sat down in our seats and scanned for “weird” people. We checked for the exits. We looked around the floor, under seats, to see if we could fit in case of gunfire. Then we told the kids “If you see anyone you don’t like or who you think looks or is acting weird – ANYBODY AT ALL – just leave. Quietly. Go out into the lobby and we’ll follow you out. Don’t even ask us. Just go.” Even as the words were coming out of my mouth, I couldn’t believe that the danger I was discussing was even a real possibility. But obviously, it was.

I know the odds are with me when I open the door and let my kids out into the world, but I also know on some level that it’s still a gamble. And it makes me sick. And scared. I can’t help but constantly wonder “What kind of world have we brought these kids into??”

As parents, all we want is a safe haven for our family and we try to find it . But whether it’s in a quiet suburb or a big city, all of these places have one thing in common. They’re in America. And Americans have guns. And Americans can get guns. And Americans will use guns. And for every person that points a gun, there’s somebody else at the other end of it. And I hope it’s not my kid. And you know what? I hope it’s not your kid either.

So what can we do?

I lived in NYC for almost 20 years and I know what it means to be street smart. I can tell you, most teenagers are not street smart.

We’ve done such a good job protecting them that they just aren’t prepared for any possibility. I don’t want to scare my kids, but I do want them to be prepared. It’s the only way to help them stay safe.

Of course, the unfortunate truth is that nobody’s ever completely safe, but there’s no reason to look like an easy target. Life is a series of “What ifs” and each and every one of them is a real possibility (something I just learned the hard way.)

So with the help of Sergeant Haefs of the Beverly Hills Police Department, I put together a list of tips you need to share with your kids ASAP – or at least before they walk out that door into the world again:

1. Watch out for strangers: Duh! You’ve been taught this since birth. So why have you suddenly forgotten this golden rule we’ve practically beaten into you??!!! Because you’re taller now? Look up the street, Look behind you down the street. If you think you’re being followed, keep walking in the direction of your destination and cross the street; find a service station and wait until they pass. I say “Safety comes before being polite to strangers.” (Of course, you shouldn’t be disrespectful or rude either – it can start a fight) but don’t worry about being helpful. There’s no reason to engage any strangers who talks to a kid. Even if it’s just to ask for directions. SOMEBODY IS FOLLOWING YOU IN A CAR? Take a picture of the license plate and run to a well-lit, busy place ASAP.

2. Be smart: Please organize yourself and all of your stuff before get out of your car or walk down a street. Make sure you have EVERYTHING you need and have your keys where you can reach them (so you don’t have to stand around looking for your keys or chapstick please?) Have your keys out and ready to use before you even get to your front door and check your surroundings to make sure nobody is near your door. Use your keys quickly, and close and lock the door behind you immediately.

3. Hide your stuff: Keep your phone, money, credit cards, jewelry – anything of value – out of sight.

4. Make sure people can see you: If you’re going to be walking around out at night, wear bright, light-reflecting colors. It calls attention to you. Criminals would rather mug somebody people or passing cars can’t see very well.

5. Don’t get distracted: If you’re wearing headphones, keep the volume WAY down so you can hear everything going on around you. BETTER YET go without music for a few minutes and put the headphones away.

6. Avoid dark streets: Even if it’s a route you know. Just because you walk it all the time, doesn’t mean it’s safe at night. Take a busier street and walk with friends. But EVEN if you ARE walking with friends remember #7!!!!

7. There isn’t always safety in numbers: You think you’re safe because you’re with a group. But when a mugger sees a bunch of teens laughing, texting and oblivious to the world around them (and you ARE oblivious while you make that snapchat of your friends while you’re walking) you’re not safe – you’re fish in a bucket. Especially when the mugger has a gun. You’re DESPERATE to send a text message? Be the ONLY one texting and make sure all of your friends are acting as a look-out.

8. Be aware of your surroundings: Avoid tall bushes, hedges, alleyways, empty lots, anywhere that’s remote or where somebody could hide. Before you go to open your front door, look around to make sure nobody is lurking before using your key and providing an opening to your own home. If you’re being followed quickly get somewhere where there are a lot of people. Run there. You can even knock on somebody’s well-lit doorway.

9. Go from Point A to Point B: Stop leaving parties to walk around! Where are you going anyway?? When you leave the party we don’t know where you are. We can’t come quickly to your aid. Please don’t leave a party without letting us know you’re going and where you’re going. And if you DO need to go somewhere – get FROM where you are TO where you need to go quickly! Walking around aimlessly makes you a target.

10. Don’t walk at night if you don’t have to: If you have a choice between getting a ride (from a friend or parent) at night and walking – take the ride!

And WORST CASE SCENARIO:

11. Give a mugger what they ask for (as long as it’s ONLY property): If they ask you to get into a car or go anywhere else – RUN! “Create distance.” says Sergeant Haef. Yell “HELP! POLICE!” or “FIRE” – just get away. But if they’re just asking for your phone, your money or your jewelry, just GIVE IT TO THEM. Nothing is more valuable than your life.

This may seem like a lot, but here’s the most important thing to remember – just teach your children to “think safe.” Adults are exposed to the dangers of the world all the time but the truth is our kids live a more insulated existence. The Women’s and Children’s Health Network suggests reminding them that not everyone is always as nice as they seem. We live in a dangerous world and the best way to be safe is to think about staying safe!

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